This photograph just about sums it all up. Many happy kids, beautiful views, food, times and we are all just loving it:-
On our fishing trip, with the subtle help of BB my youngest son caught a mackeral so he was very happy and then threw it back in so I was happy too.
I need to hold on to how much we all have together because when I get back my X has insisted on meeting me to talk about the children and has suggested that I might like to have a lawyer present. WTF??? Can’t think what he wants to talk about but it’s scaring me…..WHY would I need a lawyer present? Good grief. BB has offered to come in place of a lawyer and take notes, but I’m not sure thats going to work.
Anyway, in the meantime off to enjoy the moment.
July 30th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
Wow that looks fab, you are right to focus on the present, you can not change what ever he is going to do, but what a pain to do this to do when you are all having fun.
July 30th, 2010 at 2:32 pm
What a beautiful pic, dont worry about when X comes home just enjoy the moment, why let him spoil your time now whatever he has to say will wait. You can deal with it when you have to no point in rushing towards things you cant change.
July 30th, 2010 at 3:15 pm
Great photo.
July 30th, 2010 at 3:31 pm
bueno tienes cosas buenas no mas pero le falta algo importante
July 31st, 2010 at 2:12 am
Oh flip – can’t you get a real lawyer friend ?? x.x
July 31st, 2010 at 6:02 pm
Well if it that serious maybe the whole conversation from start to finish should be in writing, just so nobody can play “I never said that !!”
If it is real and not a case of wanting to push your buttons or catch you off guard, then he shouldn’t have any issue with creating a permanent record of his words so you (and if nec. a lawyer) can peruse it at leisure before deciding how to respond.
He has every right to bring up any issues he has or changes he would like to make. He doesn’t however get to chose the format of communication.
Face to face can always happen once he has committed what is up on paper so nobody is at a disadvantage thanks to the element of surprise. No reasonable person can object to creating a level playing field.
July 31st, 2010 at 6:27 pm
Take a lawyer and a dictafone… enjoy the rest of your holiday and try not to worry about it!
August 1st, 2010 at 9:26 pm
Fancy springing that on you whilst you’re on holiday. I feel sick for you. :0( XX