My ex husband has asked me to meet him “to talk about the children”.
The meeting is tonight.
I am shitting myself.
I really hope it’s not as bad as I think it might be and that we can find a way through all the mess without talking about his new wife or Builder Bloke or finances or new schools…..
I am going to try and be reasonable and open. To try not to get into any arguments and to hope that we can be grown up enough to discuss our children without anger or blame.
We are parents of three gorgeous children who ultimately only want the best for them. Lets hope this shines through.
My friend told me that I need to say “WE” a lot and possibly mention “in the best interests of the children” if required.
Wish me luck x
August 22nd, 2010 at 5:45 pm
Good Luck, stay calm. Might not be as bad as you think. Keep to the agenda only talk about your children no other business allowed. xx
August 22nd, 2010 at 7:28 pm
Think will bring an agenda and take minutes!! Lx
August 22nd, 2010 at 6:23 pm
Best of luck! Keep calm and do your best to rise above any agro. Don’t forget the finances are ultimately for the children if it ends up in that territory too
x
August 22nd, 2010 at 7:27 pm
Thanks Claire – I will try my hardest!! Lx
August 22nd, 2010 at 9:14 pm
Really hope it’s going ok. Been reading your blog a little while and can see you are a fab mum.
August 22nd, 2010 at 10:16 pm
Good luck! Don’t let him suck you into anything other then what is on your agenda!
August 22nd, 2010 at 10:57 pm
Hope it went okay L. Thinking of you xx
August 23rd, 2010 at 5:59 am
xxxx
Hope it went okay
August 23rd, 2010 at 1:04 pm
oh been thinking about ya darlin’…hope it all went ok???? xxx j
August 23rd, 2010 at 1:08 pm
hope it all went ok.
August 23rd, 2010 at 2:03 pm
Hope you survived yesterday and that things are now on a better course for you and the family.
Mad x